Naledy

Posted on 10 May 2007 at 10:49

One of the 10 year old girls had a rough day. Her name is Naledy. Usually, Naledy is full of spunk, bright faced, and very mindful of others, but her mood yesterday was really off. She wouldn't speak to anyone. Finally some of the older girls told us that a gift from Naledy's mother had suddenly disappeared. It was a beautiful bottle of perfume that one of the Aunties had stored away so Naledy wouldn't lose it.
Naledy's story is pretty sad. At a very young age, her father ran away and left her mother and her. Her mother brought her to Agape because she is HIV positive and in the final stages of AIDS. There is no other family for Naledy to go to. Naledy has only been at the orphanage for a year, and for each holiday she visits her mother at the public hospital. On her last trip, Naledy cut her time short because her mother's condition had severly worsened.
It's not often I see the children sad, but when it happens it is so hard not to notice. Their courage of taking on life with such zest and vigor is inspirational and courageous. Naledy's mood slowly melted away through the day or at least she gave us that impression. I found her smiling and playing. I hope one of the Auntie's find her gift from her mother and that it was just misplaced and not stolen.
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A little update on the twins: Andishwa and Unati's mother died soon after their birth. Their father could not afford raising the children and living in Waterfall. He found a job in Joburg where he lives and barely pays rent. During the long holidays, the twins, who are 4 and soon to turn 5, visit him there or he comes down to see them.
Birthdays aren't big Zulu holidays so he won't be here for their 5th birthday on Sunday. We'll be toasting their birthday on Monday.

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adrien wrote:

10 May 2007 at 17:02 Sounds like every moment there is a whirlwind, from the kids' emotional stories, to their emotional attachment to you, and all the intensity of visiting Bobbi Bear, the Tree Clinic, the Dream Center... And then hopping a plane to do some Getty work! A bit concerned to hear you haven't been sleeping well. Don't forget about the ambien. You are going through a TREMENDOUS amount, emotionally, intellectually, physically, spiritually. I am very proud of you, but please remember to take care of yourself too. You need the downtime.
Big hugs. I am about to get on the plane to Wisconsin. Looking forward to reading more when I get back next week.

Vicky wrote:

13 May 2007 at 17:05 So many stories, yet each is so powerful that it must take so much mental energy as well as physical energy to be there.
Well, I hope Naledy finds her perfume bottle! I am so sorry to hear about her mother.
Take care of yourself and hope you start sleeping well.
Love, Vicky

Name: Annick Shen

Volunteered at Agape from 30 April 2007 to 20 May 2007.

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